Renee Canali and I explored how our stepchildren reflect back to us what we need to change or adopt in our relationship with them, and she shared some exercises to help you shift your mindset and help you think about you and your role in your stepfamily from a different perspective.
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A Great Bonus for Stepparents Who Want to Change Their Mindset!
Renee Canali and I explored how our stepchildren reflect back to us what we need to change or adopt in our relationship with them, and she shared some exercises to help you shift your mindset and help you think about you and your role in your stepfamily from a different perspective.
RemarriageWorks Launches New Monthly Radio Show for "Remarrieds" and Stepfamilies
My first topic will be "Remarriage Works: A Second Look at Mortgages, Credit, and Finances" with special guest Carl Delmont, CEO of Freedmont Mortgage, and Board Member of the MD Council on Economic Education and MD Coalition for Financial Literacy. Carl, the first certified divorce planner in MD, is also a weekly expert on WMAR ABC TV in Baltimore.
Do you worry about blending your credit histories or finances? Are you remarried and thinking about buying a new home? Do you understand how buying a home in your second marriage is different from your first-time purchase? Do you know how child support and alimony are treated when applying for a mortgage?
If you are pre or post divorce and/or remarried, or somewhere in between, don't miss this dynamic guest!
And, last, but not least, we are proud to announce our radio show sponsor, IDEALS of Kentucky. Their mission is to teach people methods of communicating with others, of dealing with emotions, and of solving problems. I don't think there is a remarriage in the world that wouldn't benefit from that!
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to keep our family together?
more depleted you allow yourself to get, the less of you there will be to share. Try these steps: 1. Write down your uncensored thoughts about a given situation. (The Journal for StepMoms is an inspiring and encouraging place to do this). 2. Let it be for
a day or so. Then go back and read what you wrote. • If your stepchildren heard you say what you wrote, how would they feel? • Take a minute or two to reflect on one thing you could handle differently. 3. Give yourself credit for every little change you make,
every word of understanding and encouragement you give. 4. Give to others what you so desperately want for yourself. If you want to be first in your relationship with your husband, make a practice of putting him first. The strength you have demonstrated these
last 7 years can go three ways: It can diminish as your attention is given to the ex-wife’s behaviors. It can increase as you turn your focus towards that which you want. It can remain tenuous and strained as you attempt to hold everything together. Nothing
is predestined: The obstacles of your past can become the gateways that lead to new beginnings. Ralph Blum